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The Leaning Tower of Pisa, wasn’t supposed to be leaning, but if it were straight it probably wouldn’t be such a popular tourist attraction.
I’m a recovering perfectionist, which is probably why I know a thing or two about this topic.
I mean, I love producing beautiful videos, creating awesome programs, leading my international sisterhood and, frankly, doing things really well. …and I’m critical of what I produce at every step single step of the process.
Whether it’s a new video, or a new program, a livestream or a blog post.
Here’s the deal
I let go, publish, and move forward.
Now, I’ve been fascinated by excellence my whole life.
As It Turns Out
Studies have shown that perfectionism is closely related to shame. it’s like we’re trying to hide something behind being perfect.
“Where there is perfectionism, there is always shame” says Brene Brown.
And perfectionism isn’t the same as healthy striving or a desire for excellence.
I get asked this question a lot.
“How can I get back into my feminine after my work day so that I can be available for a relationship?”
Here’s the scoop
Essentially the answer is in creating transitions…from Man-OS into Fem-OS! i.e. our masculine operating system into our feminine operating system.
My latest video gives some tips as to how to do this if you’re heading out on a date or if you’re wanting to be more available to your partner.
I invite you to check out my new video on How To Transition From Work-Mode Back Into Your Feminine
Let’s go out there and shine!
Have you ever thought about what is stopping you from getting what you want?
Have you ever thought about what is stopping you from getting what you want…. with men?
I hear you sister, as I experienced this first hand, and I can tell you that this block comes down to two little words:
Now, I want you to know that it is not your fault that you are operating through a masculine lens.
We have been trained to think and act from this mode by society, and as you probably already know, it does not work out well when it comes to our relationships with men.
For many women, the constant energy outpouring of pushing and striving, leads to, (if I can be totally honest with you? ) repelling masculine men.
Here’s how it goes:
When we look at the masculine-feminine spectrum, we have to keep in mind that the two are residing on the two opposite ends of life.
Although they are on different ends, they have a magnetizing pull towards each other.
And for this reason
As a woman, you must flow and go through your life in your feminine orientation to attract a strong masculine presence.
After all, polarities do attract!
Men crave and desire fully feminine women to balance out their masculinity.
When you learn to master the glide and slide between your masculine and your feminine self, accordingly, mighty masculine men will naturally want to bask in your feminine essence.
To dive into this week’s deep lesson on how being too masculine is stopping you from getting what you want with men, click the video link below: