Deep vulnerability is what I’ve been facing soooo intensely in the last few weeks.
It was my birthday last week and I find the solar return, when the Sun returns to the Sun triggers my biggest core wound, that of the withdrawal of the masculine.
I have been trained in astrology for over 20 years and the Sun represents the masculine, the father, so the solar return highlights this in me. You see, my father died when I was 13 years old.
This belief that the masculine will abandon me is very deep inside me, and got triggered again this birthday, despite the fact that the man in my life keeps turning up as so solid, so constant, like a pillar of Divine Love for me.
Why does this matter?
Somewhere along the line I, you, we were taught that vulnerability means weakness. The core message passed to me from my family was “Whatever you do, don’t be seen as vulnerable, not coping, not…..pretending”
The truth?
Vulnerability is strength. There is power inside it. Courage. A discovery of our heart. Our humanity.
Recognizing, opening to and living through vulnerability and surrender has been an ongoing theme for me in the last few years.
Last week, I reacted to my partner, I believed he was withdrawing, but I knew that I had to speak out my biggest fear, my core wound to him. I had to stop hiding this. I had to let it be seen.
Being seen, speaking up and coming out of hiding are some of the most difficult things for women to do.
Oprahs recent Golden Globe acceptance speech impressed on us that “Speaking your truth is the most powerful tool we have”.
It takes vulnerability to do this Huge, copious, messy chunks of it. …and we can’t do that alone. Brene Brown wrote a book called “Daring Greatly” in which she quotes “…embracing our vulnerability is risky, but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy” —> Click here to hear more about the Power Of Vulnerability
The result?
He became a solid pillar of love for me; he reassured me; of his love, of his care, of his presence.
My vulnerability was seen, held sacred and adored.
I feel more open, closer to him and more real inside.
I encourage you to dare greatly and embrace your vulnerability as one of the key entry ways into your feminine power.
Feminine power has some core elements to it that include softness and opening and I’ve made a video this week covering these aspects of what it takes be more feminine, feel your power and unlock your energy!
According to nature, the feminine is all about receiving. Just have a peek down there if you need more convincing!
Unlike the visible, external expression of male genitals, our pussy has a hidden, internal expression.
To receive is to take in, to take in is to receive…
Like the inner pull of the ocean’s tide, as the water rolls in [think yin] your ocean is receiving back from the efforts of the outward flow.
Think about it
How often do you reallyreceive?
When someone sends you a compliment is your natural instinct to accept it graciously, or to dodge and hide away from the praise?
In this week’s video, I am giving you 8 juicy tips on how to receive more in your life, because when you are receiving you are connected to your feminine essence.
Here’s a sneak preview of the tips!
Receive praise!
When someone extends a compliment to you, I encourage you to step into your feminine by fully embracing the praise.
Perhaps a stranger told you how much she likes your blouse, or a work superior highlighted you for your excellent work on a presentation.
Do not reject these simple words by making a self-deprecating statement on how “this old blouse doesn’t even fit me nicely anymore,” or saying “oh no, no, I stuttered over my words and completely messed up my last slide.”
What if…
…Instead
…you practice receiving praise by:
Taking a breath
Thanking them gracefully and graciously with a simple “Thank you.”
I share 7 more tips for How To Receive More In Your Life in the video below:
If your mind presents any questions or comments while watching the video, I would absolutely love for you to comment your thoughts below the Youtube video.
Remember ladies, it is okay for you to receive. Step into your Queendom by embracing the different ways people want to give to you.
What’s your first response when somebody compliments you?
“You look great!”
“Job well done!”
“Delicious cake!”
I know, I used to push it away and say “Oh, no I don’t; I didn’t; I can do better…”
Ouch.
When you praise someone and they don’t receive it, it hurts, right?
So, I learned to receive praise….gracefully, gratefully and graciously. Receiving praise and compliments is one of the eight tips for how to receive more in your life.
Check out my new video below where I go deep on HOW to receive more step by step.
They lived across the street from each other in India.
The brothel on one side; the monastery on the other.
The priest was celibate and frustrated and constantly peered out of his window at the brothel across the street.
The prostitute had big aspirations for enlightenment and would constantly peer out of her window at the monastery across the road wanting to be in full time meditation.
After death:
The priest went to a place that was full of lasciviousness and carnal desires.
The prostitute went to a place where she could meditate and be in constant union with the Divine.
Here’s why.
This story illustrates the power of our desires. Especially the hidden and constant, unspoken background ones.
You must desire, give attention to, and have intention for what you want in your life to receive it.
What does this mean for you?
This story reminds us of the power of finding and owning our hidden desires in order to get what we really want…NOW, rather than waiting any longer.
Essentially, in this video I talk about refocusing on what you do want and away from what you don’t.
This week I am going to teach you how to be attractive in your feminine power.
When I say attractive, I am referring to embodying the magnetic effects to receive more love, joy, and more powerful experiences.
As a woman, we were born with an abundant amount of this energy supply source! By sipping the cup of our innate, inner mechanisms of feminine power and energy you really begin to shine and attract all that you desire.
What does this mean for you?
I want to share with you ladies, that your true power lies in the embodiment of your deeply rooted feminine orientation.
The feminine knows how to attract and receive the abundance she desires. However, to do this you must sink in and downwards into the power emanating from your pussy.
She swims her way upstream to be the force that is felt and seen from miles away. She is guided by the moon and moves like the ocean’s tide inviting in her inner power.
By connecting to your feminine force, you are opening yourself to receive and take in newer depths of pleasure, experiences and opportunities.
I made this video to show you how to accept the power of your feminine. Click the link below to watch this week’s video, and I’d love it if you commented your thoughts below the Youtube video.
