Would You Like To Know How To Up-level Yourself Simply?

I used to think that I needed to know, well, everything about everything before I would be truly successful in business.

But what I found was that it was by taking baby steps, learning one new thing at a time and being gentle with my progress, that business success emerged for me.

I don’t want to do everything anyway! Instead, I employ awesome people who love to do the things that I don’t love to do, nor wish to learn about.

At first, when we are starting out in business you kind of have to be a Jill-of-all-trades, but in time, if you grow your business consciously, you will end up doing only what are your strengths and where your greatest passions lie.

Your purpose and passion, basically!

The transition from {!firstname_fix}-of-all-trades to running a truly collaborative business does take a bit of time.  It requires developing relationships and building trusted partners and collaborators.  But, when this starts to emerge, the feeling inside is sooooo different to when you lone-wolf every single aspect of your business.

And, the time that this takes happens whilst other baby steps are happening in your skill development.
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I created this video to remind you that if you were to improve yourself 1% every day for 100 days by taking baby steps, you’d be 100% up-leveled from where you are today!  (In fact, it would be higher than that, if my mathematical mind serves me well!)

What if we were to make a pact together, as female business owners, to become just 1% better today in just one area of our business?

In my mind, that is a totally do-able, digestible, and feminine way of growing, learning and enjoying every single [baby] step whilst growing my business.

Click on the video below to see what I have to say about how to up-level yourself simply.  Enjoy and I’d love you to leave a comment!


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Why Surrender Is So Important To The Feminine Path

I’m writing after a 4 month adventure and apologize for a long absence from talking to you.

The truth is, that it all began with making the cardinal mistake for a new business owner…overextending my expenses.
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My business last year started up very quickly and very successfully, and I, believed the gods were “on my side” and the momentum was only going to continue to grow.  And so, I took on an expensive apartment that, on paper, made sense.  I could live there, work from there, it was a great space for a video studio and I could see my clients there.  It added up on paper, but the truth is, I bit of more than I could chew and couldn’t for-see other factors moving forward, such as, getting quite sick from the EMF frequencies from a very nearby cellphone tower.  This lead to momentum having to slow down and I didn’t have the energy to do what I had started doing.  The only way I could move forward was going back into man-mode or surrendering the apartment.

Surrendering was what I chose.

Despite this, what it lead to was a 4 month adventure, that until now, I wasn’t ready to share with you.

It started when I decided to get out of the apartment and sub-let it.  It wasn’t until literally the last day of October, that my sub-tenant flew in from China and wrote me a check for the 4 month sub-let.  Until that morning, I didn’t have the rent to cover the next month, and I had no certainty that he would take the apartment.

I simply HAD to surrender and trust the flow of life.
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Well for me surrender hasn’t been my easiest path.

I was pushed to surrender, finally.  It is something that I’ve researched, aspired to, wanted deeply for 20 years, but I really never had any role models to show me HOW to do it.

So, life made me finally let go of a lifetime of resentments, hurts and pain.  I let go of not trusting life to take care of me.  I let go of the automatic return to “man-mode” that I would tend to do, to “take care of business” because life, apparently, wasn’t doing that for me.

What my last 4 month “Surrender Experiment” has taught me, so far, has been phenomenal.  In that time,  I have lived completely rent-free at the grace of friends, clients and new friends homes.  I taught a 3 day training in a dear friends home in San Diego;  I spent 6 weeks on a ranch in San Luis Obisbo in which I took care of the animals and the old man, but spent every few days at a natural hot springs and the opportunity to deeply recover my health;  I was lead to what is my new home, via a craigslist post for house sitting, back in the Bay Area at unbelievably low rent for a gorgeous house in Oakland;  I am meeting gorgeous masculine men in my dating forays;  My youtube channel is building and clients are flocking to me from all over the world to do discovery sessions with me from my videos on there.

And, boy, what a relief, to finally let go, to trust life and to *really* be in my feminine orientation.  So much tension has left my body, so much joy and grace is offered to me on a daily basis.

Surrender is so deeply essential to feminine power and so deeply misunderstood.  Which is why I created a video about surrender whilst whilst I was in my car driving to a recent meditation intensive.

Click on the video below to see what I have to say about what surrender really is and how to do it.  Enjoy and I’d love you to leave a comment!


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Would You Like To Know How To Use Your GPS To Get Your Goals?

Would You Like To Know How To Use Your GPS To Get Your Goals?

Goal setting for me is about the magic of feeling both powerful in taking action and letting go and surrendering to the process, time and the Divine plan for me.

It doesn’t seem possible for those concepts to inhabit the same space.  This is why I LOVE goal setting.

It’s the magical marriage of the masculine and the feminine!

When I get in my car to drive to a restaurant I first work out which restaurant I want to go to;   I look it up, research it, feel into it, know that my belly and my body really wants that food and that experience;  I then pop it into my GPS, jump in my car and know where I’m heading.

Sometimes en-route to the restaurant, my GPS needs to deviate it’s initial pathway because of road works or traffic;  sometimes…sometimes, I am inspired to change the restaurant en-route!

If I got in my car with no destination in mind, then I’d be driving around aimlessly, using up fuel, wasting time, energy and it would feel pretty pointless.   I could end up at an interesting destination by doing this, but without at least knowing what type of food or experience I am wanting, my needs are unlikely to get met.

Goal setting in a nutshell.

Knowing what your desires, wants and needs are is the first stage of goal setting.

This is done by diving deep deep inside yourself to feel into what you really want in your day, your year, your business, your relationships, your life.

I like to do this thing that I call “back-casting”.   Think of what forecasting is, but I do it in reverse.   I envision my 10 years goals first.  Feel into how I want to feel in my life, then the imagery comes, the details, the people, places, yumminess and success of my life and business emerges.

After this has been done fully and with all of the juicy focus I can muster, I do 5 year goals…in the same focused, engaged, visceral way.

From this, one year goals emerge clearly and they are en-route to the 10 year goals. But these ones are really important because they are the ones that are closest and on the road in front of you to take action on or wait for guidance from your GPS – or what I call the God Positioning System!

I then turn it all over to the GPS to plan the way, the route and any deviations that it has for me, my tribe and my life.

Goal setting gives me both power and surrender.  The masculine and the feminine.


Best Efficiency Tip Ever!

Best Efficiency Tip Ever!

My honest to goodness best ever focus and efficiency tip for success in your business is so super simple!

It’s this:

Schedule your day the night before!

Yep, it’s that simple.

Look at tomorrows calendar, see what of your time blocks and commitments are already in place for that day (if you don’t know what time blocks are I’ll do a post on that soon – but check this out in the meantime).  You then decide on exactly what tasks (TO-DO’s) you can realistically do for the day.

On the day

…You follow the plan that you outlined the night before.

Yep.  Simple.

This will save you so much totally avoidable stress!

What do you do if you have interruptions or plan changes?

Well, you simply schedule it for the next day or the next logical time block.

The art of Performance in a feminine based business is commanding time rather than it commanding you.

This is part of the “Performance” step of the 7 Step Feminine Success Formula.

The entire 7 step formula is outlined in my brand new E-Book.  Download if for FREE here.

How can you make 2016 the best year ever?

How can you make 2016 the best year ever?

I disappeared for a while as I decided to move out of my apartment due to toxic EMF (Electro Magnetic Frequency) effects on my health. (Cellphone tower only 60ft from my apartment…)

So, I’m now travelling around the Southwest of the USA and spending time with clients and friends.  It’s funny because it is really making me run my business in a super fluid, feminine way, not having a routine or normal structure to rest on in my home/office.

And I’m having such a blast with the women that I’m staying with.  Such sweetness, feminine hospitality and fun we are having!

It has certainly given me pause to look back on 2015 and view it from a different vantage point.

What do you see when you look back at your 2015?

Have you got the level of success that you planned for?

Did you plan at all, really?

What do you need to improve on?

Are you living on purpose?

What is the single biggest challenge you are having in your business that you’d like solved right now?

Well, here I am sitting in Austin, TX at Zhi Tea which I started with it’s Co-Founder in 2007 feeling so much gratitude for my clients, my friends, my new business associates and emerging JV partnerships.

2015 has been a whirlwind year of starting up a new phase of my business, Feminine Success, landing in the Bay Area and starting two new programs.

I did close to 50 talks this year to over 1800 women and I’ve been working with some of the worlds top coaches and mentors and engaging the best clients of my life, who I totally love and adore working with.

In short I’m creating my dream life and dream business.

Yes, I could focus on the problems, the strains, the difficulties I’ve had,  the “it never rains, but it pours” sporadic nature of a new business.  I could focus on the times of fear that crept in, the uncertainty, the mistakes that I’ve made….and there were plenty!

But I choose to focus on gratitude, love, joy and potential.   The great things simply outweigh the negatives.  It has certainly felt like a birthing process!
My new baby, Feminine Success llc, has been born.

She may be small, vulnerable and dependent still, but she is beautiful and I love her very much and what she can do to impact the world.  My vision for her, like a parents vision for their child is one of only the greatest and fullest possibility.

How can you make 2016 the best year ever?

To help you with that, I’d love to ask you this question?

What is the single biggest challenge you are having in your business that you’d like solved right now?

Respond below with your answer to this question.  I’d love to help you answer that.