Feminine Softness And Opening: How To Be More Feminine

You probably wouldn’t usually think in terms of “power” when talking about such topics as softness and opening, right?

Here’s why.

I’m referring to what makes us powerful as a human being, not power over someone or something.

>>>I invite you to check out my new video on “Feminine Softness And Opening”

Why does this matter?

Feminine power has some core elements to it that include softness and opening and I’ve made a video this week covering these aspects of what it takes be more feminine, feel your power and unlock your energy!

Check out my new video on “Feminine Softness And Opening” and how to get into your feminine power.

 

3 Reasons Why Being Masculine Won’t Work In Relationships

My relationship history looks a bit like this –

I used to attract men who were:

Not accomplished

Not masculine

Didn’t lead

Had no real sense of direction

and…

Didn’t love the feminine (in fact had serious issues with it!)

That I funded (because I made more money)

Blamed me for everything (didn’t own their stuff)

Sex didn’t really work (due to a lack of sexual polarity)

Ouch!

So, being who I am, I had to take a long hard look inside myself to see what it was about me that was attracting this kind of man. I realized that it was largely due to me being swung too hard into my own masculine and not enough in my feminine.

This my dear is how we emasculate men!

This, in addition to my realization 8 years ago that I had also run my companies for the last 25 years from my masculine is what led me to research what feminine power is and how to get more of it! As part of this I’ve been studying relationship and dating for the last 4+ years.

I invite you to click on my new video on “3 Reasons Why Being Masculine Won’t Work In Relationships.”

You’re probably wondering…

I don’t claim to be a relationship expert…but I am an ongoing and avid researcher and teacher about feminine power, and the feminine is all about relationship.

I’ve discovered a boat load of cool stuff around dating and relationships, brain science, hormones and communication. There’s nothing like a lifetime of shitty relationships to drive one to do this, hey!

So that’s what I did.

I’m here to share a few things that I’m discovering about dating and relationship as a smart, savvy, successful woman.

One of the keys to successful relationship as a woman is that being too masculine in your relationship won’t work.

Here’s why

I’m pretty sure that what you are looking for is a very masculine, available and relationshipable (is that a word?) man, right? For you to feel met, matched and adored, then you are going to have to let go of the reins for a bit, let the man lead and learn how to create space, be in your feminine, love your body and invite him toward you.

Check out my new video on “3 Reasons Why Being Masculine Won’t Work In Relationships.”

And I’ll be sharing with you how to be in your feminine power instead!

 

6 Steps To Self-Care Through Self-Compassion

Are you harder on yourself than anybody else?

Do you find it hard to forgive your mistakes?

Do you take things personally?

Self compassion is, in a lot of ways, the foundation for real self care. I’d call it the most inner way to provide care for yourself…and subsequently others.

Here’s why

I’ve always been the type of person who takes things very personally. You know… Someone’s short with me, or aggressive or over reacting to something. I think that I’ve done something wrong.

Most of the time, they’re just having a shitty day or hitting their own stuff.

The amount of stress this causes me is over the top, so I’ve learned to stop, take a breath and realize that they are human and having a bad moment or day.

It has ultimately lead to me being able to be more gentle and compassionate with others too.

Check out my new video on “6 Step To Self Care Through Self Compassion”

 

How To Get Into Your “Feminine Vs. Feminist Power”

This weeks video answers a question from a YouTube subscriber “What are your opinions on being a feminist?”

Great question!

Well, in this video I cover the difference between the Feminine Power movement and what it is evolving from; the feminist movement.

I honor our sister forbears from the feminist movement, but make clear that what the world needs now is feminine power and that this is different from what the early feminists were fighting for.

Check out my new video below where I clarify the difference between Feminine vs Feminist Power.

 

How To Soften Into Your Feminine Power

Did you know that softening is one of the greatest paths to true inner strength?

Softening leads to opening and opening is where the rubber hits the road in terms of feminine power.

How so?

Learning to soften our body, our voice and our mind/thoughts are 3 keys for how to do this. I don’t know about you, but I was taught that strength came from being hard, self-assured and forthright.

My body and my voice would carry that in my communication with people, friends and lovers.

The result…

The more I lived life like this, worked like this and conducted relationships like this, the more pain I felt inside, the more “separate” I felt and the less like my authentic self.

I invite you to watch this weeks video: 3 Keys For “How To SoftenYour Feminine Power”where I answer a question from a subscriber about “How To Soften The Voice…”